Wednesday, 21 February 2018

Is It Okay to Date Other People?*

Now I have started to get back out there and date again, I am wondering whether it is okay to date or see more than one person. I am not talking about if you're in a dead serious relationship that has been going on for some time, because we all know that would be a certain NO! 

After a recent girls night out where we discussed many different lifestyle choices and whats going wrong with the world, as we all usually do. I brought up the notion of dating other people, because I had just been on a date with a guy the other day. Whilst he is very nice, confident and extremely different from those I have dated in the past, I am just not 100% sure.

The funny thing is I try to avoid Valentines day as much as I can, so when I saw that the C2C Concert I will be going to in a few weeks is hosting a Speed Dating event before the concert kicks off, I thought what the heck. I need to sign up to that, after all, I might find my very own Country loving Bumpkin.

This is again something I brought up in the discussion and I was shocked to find that I didn't need to feel guilty, I've only been on one date with this guy after all. As the girls said, it's all fair game until you have THE TALK. The talk about whether you're exclusive or not.

I guess when you think about it, we all do it, we all talk to several people on dating sites for a while before deciding to meet one or two. You might even carry on talking to a few even after meeting one, because you can't put all your eggs in one basket. As long as you're not sleeping around and you're just meeting up, what's the harm at the end of the day?

There are some things to be aware of though, don't date several guys just because you can and think you won't get caught. I would be honest about it, you will probably find that they are doing exactly the same or that they aren't being completely honest about what they want from the future relationship.

Just because you are dating these guys doesn't mean you have to settle for these guys, don't settle just for the sake of it. It can be a great way to determine what you are looking for in a relationship, just be careful not to hurt anyone in the process. Remember you wouldn't want to be strung along, so don't string them along.

Well that's my take on it. What is your view, would you date more than one guy at a time?

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  1. I have dated a few women at the same time, as like you said its fine as long as it not heavy and serious and you are not playing a game. I have told the truth ( lies only lead to trouble) and its been fine,problem i saw was there is always at least one element in someone personality that you like.How do you get serious with one person when you are infactuated with others???

    1. I guess for me if you can't choose one then are any of them really for you? If you felt that strongly for someone then you wouldn't want to be dating anyone else at all would you? But then that is just me.


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