Thursday, 4 October 2018

Match Me Happy.....*

Match Me Happy, now that would be a wonderful thing, wouldn't it. Just go online or walk down the street and suddenly find your perfect match. Sadly, though, that is not how life works, so the saying goes you have to kiss a whole lot of frogs before you find your prince or princess.

I have tried so many dating sites and having gone through a bad low recently, after attending counseling I have decided to try it out again. Though not quite the same, with all the things I have been pulling up out of my head and reflecting on. It has got me thinking, what if I shouldn't be looking for just men. I will be perfectly honest and say that I have never spoken about this with anyone, out loud, nor have I ever been with a woman, that I can recall.

However, I cannot deny that yes I find some women very attractive, not just in a 'friends' kind of way if that makes any sense. That's not to say that I am calling myself bi-sexual or anything, because, I personally don't know and wouldn't want to put labels on anything. that's not to say I don't believe in labels or what the LGBT community stands for because they have every right to stand tall. I just don't believe I should, until I know what it is I actually want.

I guess a lot of people can/ have felt this way? It isn't something I should be ashamed of, however, it's not something that you can just come out with these days still. Lately, I have just been thinking that perhaps I have been looking in the wrong pool, there are so many people in the world after all and who says that your perfect match has to be the opposite sex? After all, many of the nicest guys I know are gay, so what's to say that one of the women I find attractive or am drawn to isn't going to end up being the one I end up falling for?

After reading up about bi-curiosity and bi-sexuality, it is clear to me that there are many others out there that feel the same. If you think the time is right for you to explore that side of yourself then go for it, if not then do not worry. We all walk at different paces and have different expectations.

For me, I have no idea what I want or how I will go about it. Whether it is something I will continue to think about and window shop or if it is something that I need to pursue so to speak.

Obviously, nothing is for certain, I could completely backtrack, but you can never say never. I guess watch this space and let me know if you have had any similar experiences?

 * This is a sponsored post in collaboration with We Love Dates for free dating sites. Please see my Disclaimer for more information.

Always be kind, you never know what personal battle people are fighting.


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